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One in a Rillion

I’ve posted before (What’s in a Name?) about how much I disliked my name when I was growing up. Rill. Pretty uncommon and hard to spell...

Things That Are Not OK To Re-gift

Christmas 2019 came and went quite quickly. Yes, it was partly due to a Hawaiian getaway earlier in the month, but a larger part of it is...

Getting the Picture

Wow. I just revisited my Mission Statement and Vision Statement from way back when I started RillPOWER. Mission Statement: To inspire...

A Walk Into the Past

What if you could go back in time? Last week, I had a chance to visit a place I hadn’t been since 1982, my great-grandmother’s house in...

Loving It Flow

So, I found out today that my last name is not only a noun, it is also a verb. What does it mean "to rill"? It means to flow like water....

The Life Changing Magic of Decluttering Your Inner Life: The Was Married Method

If you’re in the midst of a divorce, you might be faced with moving, or perhaps you just realize that you are despairing under a mountain...

The Time Is NOW

You know what’s a far better marker of time than a clock or a calendar? That’s right, an address book. Mine is a thirty year old desk...

1000 Points of (F)light

According to Jenna Bush Hager, George H.W. Bush believed that “No life can be defined as successful that does not include service to...

It Takes A Village

Have you let go of a dear holiday tradition after divorce? Not really a blog post, just a little holiday story. What holiday tradition is...

Lost Civilization- The Archaeology of a Broken Home

I admit it, I’m hopelessly sentimental. One reason that I tried to avoid divorce through all the years of X bringing it up was to...